It’s the thrill of wearing something that isn’t your “house clothes,” actually putting on shoes and maybe even daringly, talking to people you don’t live with! Going out makes you feel alive, a little spontaneous, and like you’re part of society (for at least a few hours). It’s the promise of new jokes, new friends, and maybe, just maybe, a selfie or two worth posting.

But then, there’s the charm of a night in. Let’s be real, nothing beats the appeal of staying home in pj’s, knowing you’ve got total control of the remote. There’s no need to queue at the bar or shout over loud music. And staying in guarantees all your best snacks are right there, waiting to be devoured.